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Let me just start off by saying I absolutely love creating these types of posts. Fashion has been a passion of mine for years but ever since I started working in the industry it’s rare that anything actually excites me. I see trends and products months before they are released and I’ve been become far too picky and annoyed to even bother to shop in stores anymore. It’s more like shopping is now a chore instead of something relaxing. Horrifying I know! Anyways I said all of that to say that ever since I’ve converted to a minimalist wardrobe I’ve fallen in love with shopping all over again. It’s like a have a new project to do and the territory is so unchartered and different for me. I’m loving rediscovering my wardrobe, what the heck I even like and fun new places to shop. So far I’ve compiled a small little list of where I like to go to buy my basic and transitional clothing!
Asos is my holy grail one stop shop for everything! I recently measured myself and now that I have that down, shopping on this site is so easy. For my vegas trip, I bought a few things and they fit perfectly. I bought a skirt, harem pants and a crop top for $100 bucks. I didn’t have to worry about paying for shipping, and their return system is so easy. Aside from great customer service I like shopping here because they have so many options. When I searched cropped tops it came up with 450 options and I was able to narrow them down by size, color, price and even by crew neck and turtleneck since I knew that was the style I wanted. They also offer the option to buy things packaged; meaning stuff can be bought in pairs of two. For example the two crop tops I bought could have been bought together for a cheaper price but unfortunately they didn’t have my size in both the colors I wanted; but for my basic shoppers this is right up our alley. If you’re looking for black grey, white and navy then the packaged option is a good deal.
I’m shocked this store doesn’t make the cut more often. I think it’s largely underrated. Brandy Melville has some great everyday clothing. The one downside is that everything is “ one size fits all” so for those that are xs, or xl I wouldnt recommend this for you. Since my size is usually between medium and large (depending on the fabric and cut) their clothes fit me perfectly. They have just the perfect amount of looseness to them and are great for summer wear or even for layering in the colder months. They don’t have a lot of color options; gray, white and black is about as spicy as they get, but like I said they can easily be dressed up or dressed down. After all this is a basics list so the color options are going to be slim.
Let me clarify by saying that I am a Madewell fan but I do not like J.crew ( for those of you who didn’t know they are the same company). Madewell has more casual options and when I’m looking for my basics I like something that I can make my own, not something that already has a bunch of prints and fluff that I have to work around. J.crew clothes don’t fit me either (I find that their sizing runs a little small). This store is pricey, but I think when it comes to the essentials that they are worth the investment. If you’re going to wear the shirt 8 times a month then I would say that it was worth the $50 you may have spent on it. I’m learning with minimalism. that its quality over quantity so I’m working hard to be more choosy with my spending and less fearful of the price tags. Their sale section is always the best. Catch them on a 40% off and you’re golden. They aren’t the most innovative with the cuts of their clothes but if you’re looking for clean American style then this is the spot for you!
These are the top 3 places I go to when I’m shopping for some new goodies, but a few stores are still worth honorable mention…
Uniqlo: a new favorite of mine
ZARA: Mainly shop their blazers.
H&M: Have some good winter option for an affordable price. I have two sweaters from here that I’m obsessed with
Where do you shop for your basics! Leave them in the comment section. I would love to hear!!
Summer is midway over and as much as I hate to say it this is when reality hits and hits hard; Especially for a post graduate. May your wrapping up finals and bedazzling your grad cap, By June you’re on some vacation with your feet in the sand celebrating that the years of 3 am studying and drunkenly walking home because you’re too broke for a cab are over. July hits and you’re trying to soak up the last couple of days of summer before you actually have to figure out what the heck you’re going to do with your life. Which brings me to the whole point of this post- How to get a job after graduation.
Let me start off by saying there is no cookie cutter way to do this. Everyone has their own journey and I know as a recent grad I was determined to march to the beat of my own drum.(p.s that’s my diploma up above!) I took a less “traditional” degree; majoring in apparel merchandising, and I dove full force into one of the most competitive fields ever. Fashion. I won’t spend this time talking about my journey (you can read all about that here), but I wanted to share some quick and easy tips that can be used no matter what field you’re going into.
At 13 I knew I wanted to work in the fashion industry but my ideas on what I actually wanted to do changed almost every year. Initially I wanted to be a stylist but when I got to college I had changed to a buyer. By the time I graduated, I realized buying was too much math and analytics so I wanted to do merchandising. My mind was really all over the place, but one thing I did know was that the were all related. I had some sense of direction and I took what little I knew and ran with it. My suggestion to you would be to do the same thing. It may not happen overnight, but jot down a few things that inspire you. I even had written a few backup plans (like psychology and wedding planning) in case fashion just didn’t work out. Some fields and certain positions are extremely competitive to get into. No matter how much something “ entry level” it Is its still not going to be a walk in the park. Figure out what you want to do and then make a path on how you want to get there. I started in retail and then realized I hated it and wanted to do corporate fashion instead. So I applied for an administrative assistant position on campus (completely unrelated to fashion) and started to get some data entry and overall admin experience. Once I finished that I did an internship for a showroom so that I could learn the wholesale aspect of the business, then later I worked in sales so I could actually start working with major accounts (like Nordstrom and Amazon) and get some hands on experience with buyers I aspired to be. None of this was actually merchandising, but they were all things that helped build my experience. It wasn’t perfect and quite frankly a little chopped and screwed, but I slowly started to learn the ins and outs of the business and what I wanted to do. Figure out your plan and then find any means necessary to get you there. Even if it means doing something totally unrelated first and then slowly working your way into your chosen industry.
Once you’ve found your path now it’s time to create a killer resume. You may have graduated thinking you have no real work experience but trust me everything counts. 3 years after graduation I still get questions from interviewers asking me about my experience while I was working on campus. It’s all relevant, you just have to find a way to word it properly. If you have resources available to you like a counselor at your local library or access to your school’s career center they can help you word your resume properly. You should also reach out to anybody that you know who hires for a living, even if it’s your friend who is the manager at forever 21. Anybody who hires will be able to tell you the type of format they prefer for resumes, what verbiage they look for, their preferred method of contacting someone etc. Another tip is to brainstorm on all the things you did while you were in college. Every time you volunteered or got paid to do something its work; no matter If you only did it once or for 2 years. Resumes aren’t necessarily all about how much experience you have but rather a way to showcase your character. President of your sorority? That shows leadership and that you work well with others. Worked at the school coffee shop? That shows customer service and strong communication skills. Ya, catch my drift? All of these details are golden when you’re trying to find a job!
This is when you have to really start to get crafty. Everyone and they mama are going to be applying to jobs on indeed, monster, career builder etc. It’s your job to find a little window of opportunity somewhere and wiggle your foot in the door. My first job was by recommendation from a sorority sister, my internship I got the same way and my last job at Hudson was from me emailing the showroom asking if they were hiring. That’s right..a simple email. I looked up the showrooms email address stated what I wanted to do and then sent in my resume. They called me in for an interview and I got the job! Not every company that is hiring is going to have a job posted. You have to look for work in places that aren’t always so obvious. Another tip is to apply and follow up! This is a big one. Companies get a bunch of resumes a day, your going have to find some way to stand out. Call the HR number and ask if they received your resume and if the position is still available. If it’s a smaller company ask to speak to the manager in charge. Applying for a job can sometimes feel like a full-time job but the key is to pace yourself so you don’t get overwhelmed. Try to do at least 3-4 a day and keep a running tab of everything you’ve applied to so you don’t have any repeats and so you know what to follow up with later. I had a list of all the companies I applied to, the job description and the date of application and I typically followed up about a week later.
In the meantime in between time start networking! I told everybody that would listen to me that I was looking for a job and I was always asking a million questions to those that actually worked in fashion. Since Gap (where I currently work) is so well known in the bay area there were plenty of people who knew somebody that worked here. If you’re in a specialized field then I would suggest the internet as a great resource for you. Google your industry and how you can meet people to get your foot in the door. Job fares and meet n greets are great places to start.
I hope these tips help you land your dream job! If you have any questions be sure to leave them below!
Immmm backkkkk! Sorry, I’ve been gone for a minute. I just needed some time to completely shut off and disconnect from my life. My trip with Amanda was great, but I ended the week getting sick, so I haven’t been writing as much, but I’m excited to finally get a post up for you guys! If you’ve been following me on Instagram then you already have the deets on what went down this past week but for those of you just tuning in here is the scoop!
First stop was vegas! Amanda and I booked a one-way ticket and decided to just roll with whatever came our way. For the first time ever I stayed at Planet Hollywood; which let me tell ya was the best decision everrrr. We had shopping, great food, and our fave..Fat Tuesday, right at our fingertips. It by far was the most convenient place we could have stayed since there were so many options accessible to us. We really didn’t spend a lot of money going anywhere else because we had everything downstairs. The first night we went to Surrender Nightclub In Encore. I went here for my 21st birthday years ago and I didn’t like it but Lil John is the current resident DJ now and he TORE IT UP! That place was JUMPIN (does anyone even say that anymore??). Anyways that night was amazing. We had a few free drinks, danced for a couple hours, hobbled over to McDonald’s (and when I say hobbled I mean literally, our feet were killen) and then took our tired butts home to knock out. Day one was a success!
Next day was probably my favorite day of all because we went to the celine store! If you’ve read my summer essentials post you know that I’ve been dreaming and wishing upon a star to finally get my hands on her gorgeous sunnies. I went into the store and headed straight to the sunglasses section. To my surprise, they only carried the current season in store so there weren’t as many options as I was expecting, but nonetheless I tried on a few pair. I was so excited I forgot to take a picture, but I decided on getting the Ultra Thin Preppy sunglasses. Since all my day glasses are square I thought it would be a nice switch up to get some that are round. Maybe I’ll treat myself to getting these on my birthday!
Day three we rolled out of Vegas bright and early at 6 am to catch the greyhound to go to LA. I’ve never used the bus as transportation when going long distances, but greyhound is such a well known transportation service I thought I would be fine. WRONG. Greyhound is terrible! The bus itself wasn’t bad (minus the fact that Amanda and I initially got stuck in the back right next to the bathroom….gross), but the ride was extremely bumpy, our bus driver was rude, and the rest stops were deathly disgusting! I went to the bathroom and didn’t even want to inhale the air. My shoes were cleaner than the ground I was walking on. I’ll stop my ranting there but needless to say ya girl was strugglin! I took the hottest shower and scrubbed my skin raw trying to get the funk off me that day. Note to self, don’t ever take greyhound again.
Who could be mad about greyhound when it’s taking you to the happiest place on earth! Amanda’s cousin was nice enough to let us stay with her and we spent the morning eating breakfast at IHOP (my faveee..even though I don’t even get breakfast. But whatever its still bomb). After we ate we headed over to downtown Disney so that we could buy our Monsters University hats! We weren’t sure where to get them in the actual park so we bought them ahead of time so we could wear them when we walked in. We walked in and went straight to Fantasyland. As a matter of fact, it was pretty much the only land we went to (it was too dang hot to walk anywhere else). While I prefer to go to Disney and shop for trinkets Amanda likes to go to actually ride the rides. Like the actual carassoul, teacups, and the flying dumbo ride. Homegirl was serious. It turned out to be a really fun time and to my surprise I enjoyed the little kiddie rides, so much so that we rode the teacup ride twice! I also experienced space mountain for the first time. Normally I don’t play in the dark but Amanda convinced me that it wasn’t too scary so I gave it a try. Super fun!!
The lines were ridiculous and for me that was a no go. Disneyland is way better when you go during the off season and later in the day so that most of the families are gone already. By 7 pm the place is crowded because everyone is waiting to watch the parade but by the time it’s over the park is dang near empty. I wish we could have stayed longer but since we were on someone else’s time we had to shoot out before the fireworks (crying emoji). The parade was the BEST PART. I love watching all the Disney characters come together. Elsa from frozen definitely stole the show. Maybe it was just me but I noticed that Cinderella didn’t even have her own float! They straight kicked her to the curb and said there is a new princess in town! You should have seen the girls screaming for elsa! For about 5 seconds, I really wanted a kid of my own, but by the time the parade was over that thought was long gone. Disney really brings out the kid in me!
We ended the trip by renting a car and driving back to the bay. Normally they charge a drop off fee for when you’re renting a car and not returning it to its original location but for some random reason we didn’t get charged. We ended up saving $300 buckaroos and our car rental was only $23!! Granted our car was the size of my suitcase but it was cheap and good on gas so I wasn’t complaining. Speaking of gas Amanda and I made a little boo boo. Neither of us are used to driving economy cars so we had no idea how much gas we should put into it. We stuffed that car with so much gas that the tank started overflowing. I’m in the car eating my McDonalds and Amanda starts screaming that gas Is leaking everywhere. Both of us just thought that the gas pump was broken, it never dawned on us that the gas tank might actually be full! Oh well, you live and you learn!
All in all the trip was great. We were able to travel by plane, bus and car (you can guess which one was my favorite), we got to spend the day at the happiest place on earth and best of all Amanda and I got to really get to know one of another. We’ve been friends for a few years but we’ve never traveled together alone so it was a good opportunity to learn more about each other. This trip was definitely one for the books!
Until Next time…